PMS the scariest abbreviation for all women on this earth.Premenstrual syndrome or premenstrual tension is a complex of physical and emotional changes,including depression,irritability,appetite change,water retention,bloating,breast soreness,and changes in muscular coordination.One or more of which may be experienced in the several days before the onset of menstrual flow.Four out of five female friends or ladies I know agree with me on the above mentioned.For some ladies the dates are fixed so they are mentally and physically prepared for the upcoming storm ever month.For some there’s a delay in the date due to hereditary factors,or if married worried wether they played safe,or if already on heavy medications.I am sure every man who’s an adult is aware of lady’s saying “it’s just that time of the month”!!
PMS is worst suffered when women have any type of mental illness,and if they are the delayed types it’s a bonus.Not all bonuses fetch gain.Delayed menstrual cycle fetches misery,helplessness,rage and makes one an attention seeker due to the already existing mental illness.One like this in my imagination seems to me like a vampire looking for her prey with no intentions of fulfilling her own blood hunger,as she’s already a self inflicted vampire. A good seductive actress who ruthlessly exploits,ruins and degrades the men.She seems and looks on the outer so in control of the situation and plays her role so well that all men are in love with her acting.No man ever must have imagined the pain inside her as she looks at all of them as her prey.Her rage is then her own blame game.Her moves in search of her prey with good intentions for asking for pity for her pain all go in vane.She forgets in her pain the destruction she causes as her being a vampire.Then she bleeds and relieves her own pain,once again knowing her strengths and her weaknesses.
There are a lot of methods of preventing Menstrual pains.Im sure many have already done it and are happier.Many still planning,many who also are dealing with menopause.My personal opinion on this subject is let nature play it’s role.I am 38 and have not so good control over it myself but i am learning to take control.
My pms is a treat to my bipolar.The subdued me gets a chance to party once a month and gets into the Halloween mood by becoming a werewolf.Since it has a logical reason to party,there’s nothing much I can really do.Other than me sensing it physically my better half keeps reminding me to chill.His repeated alarm slogan of “KEEP CALM” comes under the “let there be peace at home” campaign in which he is the candidate (preparing for the storm strongly but in vane) My hearts innermost condolences are felt for him,seeing him trying to prevent me from something which is not in my hands.My screaming,irritation,irrational thinking,plotting,laziness,shopping,attention seeking,love insufficiency,arguments are at its worst during this period.I question the creator at these times,why me and why millions like me are cursed with this spell.In Indian villages it is even worst as the women there are not given a chance to voice their feelings.Lack of education,lesser qualified doctors,being technically challenged ,myths about menstrual cycle,and religious beliefs are some of the many difficulties they face.
I feel blessed I stay in a metro city and I’m also aware of the solutions to my problem, but I get helpless when the time for practicing arrives.My always adorable husband is the set target during this time.His efforts in making me feel comfortable act like a trigger and are backfired.If he says anything there would be arguments,if he chooses to maintain silence,he doesn’t care.His work becomes irrelevant to me,and my work is not appreciated by him.My expectation of getting appreciated in by daily routine work should become his top priority.I want becomes more profound then.My love forgets the meaning of the word, and I start dictating terms.
Lots more in my heart but mind tells me to stop,cause I like keeping my blogs short.